How to reduce the frequency of breastfeeding at night

If the number of feeds feel unsustainable it’s always ok to make some caring changes.  To be honest it can be hard work and it’s unlikely to be upset-free. 

However, you can still put boob boundaries in place in a respectful and responsive way. I’d never suggest leaving your Small to cry solo. And you don’t need to stop all-night feeds either!  

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Infant Nap Gaps Guide

So much of my Care It Out method is centred around ensuring that your Small is as prepared for nighttime sleep as they possibly can be. A HUGE (probably the biggest) factor in this is how their daytime naps go.

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Supporting Your Small To Sleep With Someone Else

I want to start by giving you some reassurance. It’s totally natural for your Small to have a parent or person preference when it comes to settling to sleep AKA bedtime boundaries.

It can feel really frustrating. In fact all of the feelings! And parenting is so personal it’s hard not to take it personally.

But it’s all down to familiarity and what your Small is expecting to happen at bedtime. Change is strange and any deviation from what usually happens (going off peep piste!) can cause resistance and/or a Small who refuses to sleep.

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Help! My Small keeps getting out of bed at bedtime

When you make that transition to a toddler bed, your toddler finds a newfound freedom that they’ve not had before. They suddenly realise they can get out of bed themselves!

This can naturally cause some anxiety and worry for you but, it’s all part of the transition process. When something is new it’s a novelty and it’s normal for your toddler to explore their new bed and push the bedtime boundaries.

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