Parental mental health during a sleep crisis
I’m sure you don’t need me to tell you that a sleep crisis is not only tough and tiring, it can leave you feeling totally overwhelmed.
being honest, there are no magic tips to coping during a sleep crisis.
- Sleep skids absolutely suck 
- They are tough 
- They are tiring 
- They are hard 
Ways to prioritise your Mental Health when you’re not sleeping
I hope these tips will help ease things a bit for you whilst going through a sleep crisis with your Small:
- Block the clock and try not to look at your phone at wake-ups. 
- Scrap the app and try not to obsess over your Small’s sleep patterns or how much sleep they are or aren’t getting. 
- Go outside and get some fresh air and natural light every day. It’s an instant boost that can make you feel better. And it CAN help sleep too! 
- If you can, get out for a gentle walk. Even if it’s just around the block it can make your feel better. 
- Is there ANYTHING you can let go of, pause or delegate to someone else right now? 
- Is there anyone you can ask for help? If you don’t want to leave your Small with someone else, could they do some adult admin for you? 
- Have a break from Instagram, social media, forums or any websites that add to your sleep stress (this totally includes mine!) 
- Don’t forget to eat regularly and make sure you’re drinking enough water/fluids. 
- Rest whenever you can. Even if you don’t sleep, rest is best! 
- Remind yourself constantly that everything is a phase and nothing is permanent. Even though I know it doesn’t feel like it. 
I know some of these sound easier said than done but sometimes a small change can make a big difference.
If you’re really struggling with any parenting-related stress, my podcast with Dr Fiona Jeffries about Parental Mental Health might help to reassure you, and there are lots of support links in the show notes.
